http://www.dcayabyab.com All about my life and cognitive exercise. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 02:05:44 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en (this is just a rough draft, will be reedited soon) Definition: "The "you’re together but not really" stage. Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo-boyfriends. Pseudo-girlfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/11/21/pseudo-relationships/ Author's note: This is the result of a discourse with a friend from the opposite sex and I deem it apropos to my 'love' mindset.I always say love should be a choice. Although it can never be absolutely and positively confirmed, and all I can do is to keep on ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/11/18/why-love-should-be-a-choice/ I do not know who will win the presidency in 2010... But I sure hope it will either be: Bayani Fernando or Jejomar Binay Bayani Fernando is with little political color (except for pink and blue) and I believe that he is one to exact change in our country. Although some of his projects ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/11/12/presidential-endorsement/ Author's note: I am recently reading "Wild at Heart", a book which demythifies the "man" saying that we are created with a wild heart.The book's quotable quote: Where are all the men in the world...? : You have made them women. Not to undermine the importance of women, but we are just not ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/11/07/the-real-men/ Some say we have to set goals. I say we all should. But one must remember to avoid "target fixation". Say what? This is when a person focuses on something so much that he neglects everything else, be it hazards, obstacles, or anything between him and the target. This is one of the possible ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/31/target-fixation/ Author's Note: This is an insight gained from actual disconnection from the city life. There are times when we need to be disconnected from the world. We are too distracted. I really can't tell whether life out there is better than the city life, I am equally torn. First, there are ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/27/away-from-distractions/ Author's Note: I was supposed to write about agonizing over the things that society dictates to us, but I just came across Mrs. Robins and she gave a great insight in passing as we spoke of reading one's destiny. Destiny... our future is better left a mystery. This is all in view ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/20/tomorrow-is-a-mystery/ Author's Note: This is in view of the request someone made in my previous post as a comment.To break or not to break, that is the question. Actually there is only one rule to follow here... it's ye old: Pag gusto, maraming paraan, pag ayaw, maraming dahilan. Well, to start off, it's all ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/15/to-break-or-not-to-break-up/ Most people say, claim and believe that men should do the chasing at first in order to get a girl. We all know that what normally happens is that the tables turn when the relationship commences such that the gals do the chasing thereafter. Although this is a lingering fact, ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/11/relationship-myth/ Sometimes we tend to push some people a little bit too much, and in the process they are forced to be in a lose-lose situation... this is when you should cease your actions no matter what the reason is... Desperate times call for desperate measures - Unknown Since a person is pushed ... http://www.dcayabyab.com/2008/10/11/desperate-person/